š Smart Locks and Elderly Safety: Helping Loved Ones Stay Independent
- Jessica Zhang
- May 22
- 6 min read
A small change that makes a big differenceāfor your peace of mind, and theirs.
When we think about our aging parents or grandparents, we often ask ourselves the same question: How can we help them feel safe and independent at the same time?Ā Itās not always easy to find the balanceābut sometimes, a small change can make a big difference. For many families, that change starts with something as simple as a smart lock.
š A Growing Need: Irelandās Aging Population
Ireland is getting olderāand thatās actually something to celebrate! People are living longer, more fulfilling lives. But as the population ages, their needs change, especially when it comes to feeling secure at home.
In 2023, 15.5% of Irelandās populationĀ was aged 65 and over.
In Cork, the number of people over 65 jumped by 21% between 2016 and 2022, now reaching 89,461.
More than 21,000 older adults in CorkĀ live aloneāincluding over 3,000 aged 85 or above.
To better understand this trend, take a look at the projected growth in Irelandās elderly population from 2016 to 2026:

This chart shows three age brackets:
šµ Ages 60ā65
š“ Ages 66ā84
š¢ Ages 85+
As you can see, all age groups are steadily increasingāespecially the 66ā84Ā and 85+Ā segments. This highlights a growing need for home safety solutions that allow older adults to continue living independently, with confidence and support.
š Data source: Central Statistics Office (CSO) and Irish national aging strategy documents.
š How Smart Locks Support Safer, Smarter Living
I know smart technology can feel a little intimidating at firstāespecially when itās something new like a smart lock. But just like AI helps us streamline daily tasks, smart locks are here to make life easier, not more complicated. They let us spend less time worrying about things like keys and locks, and more time focusing on what really mattersāour loved ones.
To be honest, I often wish I had thought of installing a smart lock for my grandfather a few years ago. It wouldāve saved us both a lot of stress, and maybe even made his daily life a bit more comfortable and safe.
Smart locks arenāt just cool techāthey quietly support everyday routines. Theyāre especially useful for older adults who want to stay in their homes but might need a little extra help with daily security.
1. No Keys Needed
This one is so importantābecause letās be honest, we all know how memory starts to fade with age. Even I find myself wandering around the house looking for my keys before going out! Now imagine how much harder that can be for an elderly parent or grandparent.
Fumbling with keys isnāt just annoyingāit can be tough on aging hands or a tired mind. With a smart lock, your loved one can unlock the door using:
A PIN code
A fingerprint
A keycard
Or even facial recognition
No more digging through bags or worrying about lost keys. Itās simple, seamlessāand surprisingly empowering.
2. You Can Help from Anywhere
We all want to be there for our loved ones, but life gets busyāand many of us donāt live with our parents anymore. If an elderly loved one falls or needs help, you wonāt have to wait until someone with a key arrives. Thatās where smart locks really shine.
With just a tap on your phone, you can check in, unlock the door remotely, or even share access instantlyāso help can get in without delay. Itās one of those simple tools that quietly fills a big gap in daily care.

With smart locks, help doesnāt have to wait.
One of my favorite features? The ability to check if the door is lockedāanytime, anywhere. I usually remember⦠but not always. And letās be honest, that little moment of doubt hits us all: āDid I lock the door?āĀ Now, you donāt have to wonder. Just open the app and see for yourself.
Whether you're five minutes down the road or halfway across the world,
you can:
Let in carers or nurses without needing to hand out keys
Double-check if the door was locked for the night
Ease your mindāwithout needing to call or worry
Itās like a quiet little safety net in your pocket.
3. Set Access Times for Visitors
Care visits, housekeepers, family popping byāsuddenly, one home needs a lot of different keys. But smart locks make that simple.
You can set custom access times so only the right people get in, at the right time:
Morning nurse visits
Cleaning service every Thursday
Weekend family drop-ins
A neighbor stopping by to feed your pet while youāre away
I used to leave a key with a friend for our cat, but I always worried she might forget it or lose it. Now, I just set a quick access schedule through the appāand it's one less thing to think about.
No more hidden keys under flower potsāor awkward āCan you come open the door?ā phone calls. Everyone gets in when they need to. No more, no less.
4. Get Notifications in Real Time
Even when you canāt be there, you can still know whatās happening. Some smart locks will ping your phone when the door is opened, locked, or even left ajar.
Others come with tamper alertsājust in case. Itās like having an extra pair of eyes on the front door, giving you peace of mind from a distance.
At Bear and Me, our smart locks use trusted apps like TTLockĀ and Tuya Smart, so you can monitor everything from your phone. Youāll know who came and whenāno guesswork, just peace of mind.

𩺠When Health Conditions Make Smart Locks Essential
As we get older, even everyday tasks like locking the door can become unexpectedly difficultāespecially when health issues come into play. This is where smart locks arenāt just a convenienceātheyāre a quiet, reliable form of support.
⢠Dementia or Alzheimerās
People with memory loss may forget to lock the door, misplace keys, or even wander outside during the nightācan be a real risk.
ā Smart locks help by:
Automatically locking the door after a set time
Sending real-time notifications if the door is opened unexpectedly
Letting family members check or control the lock remotely
These small features can bring huge peace of mind, without taking away a personās independence.
⢠Arthritis or Parkinsonās
Conditions that affect mobility, like arthritis or Parkinsonās, can make turning a small key frustratingāor even painful.
ā With a smart lock, thereās:
No twisting, no tight grips
Just a tap with a card, a fingerprint, or even a voice command
A smoother, more comfortable way to get in and out of the house
⢠Stroke Recovery or Limited Mobility
When someone is recovering from a stroke or has difficulty walking, even getting to the front door can be a challenge.
ā Smart locks make it easier by allowing:
Carers or family members to unlock the door remotely
Emergency services to enter without delay
More independence inside, without needing to rush to the door
āMy momās hands trembled too much to use keys, and sometimes sheād struggle to unlock the door. With a smart lock, she just taps a cardāand I can always check in from my phone. Itās such a relief.ā
š§” A Small Change, A Big Sense of Relief
One of the families we helped once told us:
āMy dad still wants to do everything himself, and thatās great. But now, I donāt worry if he forgets his keys. I can quietly check from my phone, unlock it if needed, and he never feels like heās losing control.ā
Thatās exactly what smart locks offerāquiet support without overstepping. They help our loved ones stay independent while giving us, as family members, a sense of security and ease.
Itās often the little upgradesāones we donāt even notice after a whileāthat bring the biggest relief. And honestly? I only wish weād made the change sooner.
š Thinking About Making the Switch?
If youāre caring for an elderly parent or grandparentāor just planning aheadāa smart lock could be the simplest, most meaningful upgrade you make.
Itās not about tech for the sake of tech. Itās about giving people the freedom to live confidently, safely, and independently.
š Need help choosing the right lock?
At Bear and Me, we offer free consultations and installation, and weāre more than happy to walk you through it step by step.
š© Chat with us live,
š§ Email us anytime at dc@bearandme.ie
orš Give us a call on 089-964-6804
weāre here to help you find the perfect fit for your home, your family, and your peace of mind.
Letās make your home smarter, together. š”āØ





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